Snug's Surgery

Please pray for Snug as he is getting his adnoids and tonsils out, along with tubes in his ears this morning. He is super excited to go to the hospital...we've let him be excited but have tried to tell him what will happen. I'll update later. Thanks

7 Weeks & Memorial Day

Rosebud is 7 weeks old today. She weighed in at 9 lbs, 10 oz this morning. I was a little surprised, because I thought she'd be more like 14 oz because she usually gains more than that each week, but 6 oz isn't bad. I think I am a little paranoid after all the trouble Little Monkey had. Our doctor is too, that is why he has me checking her weight every week (we have a special scale at home we bought when LMM was having trouble).

Look at her smiling! She started looking at us and smiling at about a week and a half. Not gas-truly smiling at us. It is really hard to capture on camera, but I've been successful a couple of times now.

Here is a peek into our Memorial Day activities.

We started the day at a local outdoor mall to walk around and enjoy the weather.

These two munchkins hung out with daddy...

...while this munchkin played in the fountains. He wouldn't even get close to them last year, but this year he was very excited. I wasn't very prepared, he was in jean shorts.

I tried to convince Little Monkey Man that it was fun, but he was having none of it.

No, his right arm isn't bleeding, it is a tattoo. That is a post for a different day.

Next we went to a park that is close to our house for a picnic lunch and some playground time.

Is that not the longest slide you have ever seen? It goes right down the the left hand side of the picture. We call this park "big slide park". It has a real name, but everyone here knows what you are talking about when you say "big slide park".

LMM makes his feet stay to the sides so that he goes down very S L O W. The other kids get upset that his turn takes so long and I think he likes it that way. I don't think he is concerned about going too fast, he loves to whip down out slide at home and fly off the end.

Snug loves every minute of it!

The plan was to next go to a Memorial Day service in our town, but when we arrived it was well over 80, there was no shade anywhere at the Veterans Memorial site, and two of the three needed naps-badly. It was in the early afternoon, right during our nap time. We turned around and headed home instead.

That evening it was more fun at a friend from church's house. They had a big picnic and there were tons of friends in attendance. Snug wanted to hold Rosebud after he noticed other people were getting a turn. He'll go a day or two and never ask to hold her...and then the minute someone besides mommy or daddy has her, well then it is his turn also!

Except for being called a "cute little girl" on the slip n slide, LMM also had a fun time. Post being called a "girl" I stuck his "dude" shirt on him. He was really embarrassed at being called a girl. I think because he doesn't always communicate clearly to us we forget how much he understands of what is going on around him. Actually, his speech is starting to really blossom and he is doing better each day.

There's that smile again!

And another smile (LMM's twin is in red...seriously they could be twins).

So aside from the fact that LMM got hold of picnic food and has had diarrhea ever since the party, it was a really great day!

I know it is a little late because I am SO not good at posting right after things happen, but the Drays would like to thank all of our veterans who have served our country past and present. We appreciate the freedoms we enjoy in our great country.

Memorial Day Post...

Our Memorial Day post will have to wait till tomorrow...it is too late to post all the fun we had.

However, if you like FREE events, and you like bowling...or can tolerate it and your childre might enjoy it, go to: www.kidsbowlfree.com and register for your children to get 2 free passes each per day in the summer. Our local bowling alley is participating in this country wide event. See if there is one in YOUR area!

100 weeks

Little Monkey Man is 100 weeks old. Doesn't that sound odd? Most moms quit measuring their child's age in weeks somewhere between 6 and 10 weeks old. We then start to say how many months, and then after they are two or so just how many years. But I get these e-mails for all three of the kids every week (or month depending on their age) saying what developmental milestones to be looking for, funny antidotes from other moms, etc. I usually skim them or don't even open them-just delete.

Today all three kids are resting, and I am about to go rest myself. I just wanted to take the chance to check my e-mail really quick. I'm trying to be better about checking my e-mail daily, reading at least a handful of other people's blogs every couple of days, and getting on Facebook once a week. The very first e-mail was from Circle of Moms and it said "___________ is 100 weeks". I just stared at it. Really? Wow.

I would normally do something like this as a birthday post, but 100 weeks seems like a milestone to celebrate also. Below are some favorite pictures and memories I have of my little monkey.

I love you little boy, and even though you seem like my "hardest" child, I can't wait to see what the next 100 weeks will bring!

I'd Like To Share A Story

As you probably already know, my husband (#1) is a police officer. This past winter, I got the call that no officer's spouse wants to get. Only I was very fortunate to get it from my husband, and not from another officer or the chief. I haven't blogged about this because for legal reasons I needed to wait until the trial and all investigations were finished.

My husband was working the evening shift that night, and then was asked to do an undercover detail during the midnight shift. When he came home for dinner (a luxury we no longer enjoy since we moved) he asked if it was ok with me. It meant he'd be working 16 hours straight, but knowing how excited he was to do some undercover work, I agreed it was a great opportunity.

#1 assured me that he and a friend would be driving around in a non descript car wearing plain clothes watching for some guys who were breaking into cars around the city. The idea was that if they spotted anything unusual, they'd call it in and then disappear. He'd have no paperwork and would be home around 8 am. Easy overtime, fun for him.

About 7 am I answered the phone, still a little fuzzy from sleeping and trying to get ready for my Draycare kids to arrive. The boys were not up yet and I was moving slow. The first words I heard were "Don't panic, but Miller* and I were in a shooting and we're ok". I almost thought he was joking for a split second, but knew it wasn't something he'd ever joke about. He said he'd called me in case I turned on the news and saw it...he didn't want me to be worried. I don't turn on the TV in the mornings, he's the only one who does that...but it was a good thing because if I had turned on the TV and saw that two undercover officers in Smalltown USA* had been in a shooting, I would have panicked.

He went on to explain that the SWAT team was at a stand off with the suspects and he wanted to stay around and be there. He is a member of the SWAT team, but because he was part of the initial shooting, they didn't want him to be one of the guys to go in. He sat in the SWAT van early 70's vehicle they use (that is so old I'm surprised it even starts) and waited for things to unfold.

I honestly can't remember if he stayed until that happened, but they did eventually smoke (teargas0 the guys out and arrest them.

Here's what happened that night/early morning. #1 and Miller* got dressed in their very best red neck clothing to drive around in a small silver car. I can't remember the make/model. I'm not great with automobiles. As they were driving around they got a call from a fellow officer to be on the lookout for a guy on foot in their area. After spotting him, they followed him to a nearby motel. He went in, they parked in the lot and waited. They debated going in and pretending they needed to book a room just to see what he was up to, but didn't because they thought they saw him going out another door and back out the the street. They followed the person, but lost sight of him.

Sorry if the story gets a little choppy, it just is a crazy story. While they were sitting in the parking lot, the individual they saw go in actually did use a gun and rob the motel. If they had gone in and interrupted, they probably would have been shot and the man working the desk could have been killed. Instead it went "smoothly" and no one was hurt. Weird to say, I know.

So they followed this other person who actually has nothing to do with anything and then couldn't find him. But as they were driving around the area, a car flew past them and they thought maybe was related to the actual robbery, so they followed it calling in their location. At the same time, the actual aremed robber broke into an apartment and tried to assault a guy (who took away his gun oddly enough) so the midnight shift was swamped. #1 and miller* (who was driving) were told to back off and let it go because there were not enough officers to cover all the bases. (Yes, this is the same department that has had 4 officers retire/resign and is laying off 3 more this month. They never have enough people to begin with!)

As Miller* pulled over to the side of the road, a second car they hadn't noticed before came around them on the drivers side and the passenger was hanging out the window with a handgun. He was inches from their car. Immediately Miller* and #1 ducked down and Miller* returned fire through the windshield hitting their car but not injuring anyone. #1 did not get any rounds off because Miller* was literally laying on top of him.

They called in shots fired officers in need of immediate assistance (also known as "dropping a 99" in case you care) and followed the car to a nearby apartment complex. They watched the suspects get out of their car completely freaked out and run inside their apartment building. #1 and Miller* set up the best perimeter they could with two people and waited for the officers to arrive.

I can't imagine being in that situation, and I know it affected #1. I don't think he'll ever forget what happened. Smalltown USA* has a shooting about every 5 years that involves police officers. They have several shootings a month with drug people shooting each other, but #1 calls that natural selection. Sorry. Bad joke. Smalltown USA* has a population of about 40,000 people. Not a huge city, but big enough for things to happen. Police shootings are something we hate to see happen.

That night, another officer who was sworn in the same day as #1 (I'll have to tell another police story about him sometime...we met him while #1 was in the police academy and this guy was working for another department) came by the house with his wife. Phone calls and visits from several officers had been very common in the 48 hours following the shooting. This guy had been in a shooting his first week on the job! They came by because they knew how shocked we were feeling. It was good to be able to talk to people who understood.

So how did it all turn out? After #1 and Miller* gave their full statements, it was revealed to them that the gun used by the 4 suspects (local college students) was not even a real gun. It was some kind of a pellet gun that looks like a real hand gun. That bothered #1 for quite some time, but everyone assured them that it looks identical to a "real" gun and there was no way for them to know unless they handled it personally.

Miller* was cleared and the shoot was considered "good". He had every right to fire at the suspects and took the appropriate action. #1 also struggled with the fact that he personally had not been able to shoot at them, but really he had a big ol' guy laying on him and it all happened within a few seconds. Not much he could do about it. Miller* has since quit his job for the deparment and now works for the US Marshalls. Go him!

#1 received a high honor award at his award ceremony a few weeks ago. The fact that they kept their head in the game, followed the suspects, and set up a perimeter while they waited for backup in light of the situation his department found noteworthy.

We just found out that the four suspects (who by the way had NOTHING to do with the actual robbery they semi witnessed...they were just shooting at Miller* and #1 to "scare a couple of white boys" in the suspects words...they then initially thought they had messed with the wrong hill billys...they had NO idea #1 and Miller* were cops) only received a slap on the wrist in the end. They all served some time in jail while everything was sorted out, but then bonded out and pled down to a misdemeanor...inducing panic in a public area. What they actually did could be considered a felony. No one at the department was very happy with the outcome. That happens quite a bit though...people plead out and get barely anything. This happens in all cities.

So now the story is told. God always protects, and honestly I don't worry about #1 any more now when he goes to work than I did before that day in December. However, for those of you who were wondering, it is a big reason why we moved out of Smalltown USA*. That day #1 decided that we would be moving out of the city. When we couldn't find a house in the township, we moved to this other Smalltown USA*. We aren't far, and I still do 90% of my shopping, use the library, and go to church where he works...we just don't live there. Because people know him. And they know us. And he isn't comfortable with that.

This is all public record, and "now you know the rest of the story"! (I love Paul Harvey)

*Names changed